What Jesus said about...........Prayer and fasting

Exeter Temple Message notes: Sunday 8^th March 2015

Bible Reading: Matthew 6:5-18

 The public expression of prayer was dominant in Jesus day to the point where people often prayed by proxy rather than personally. Limiting prayer to a public act raised the danger of it becoming an empty show.

So Jesus warned, “Do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men.”  (v 5)

A hypocrite referred originally to an actor who changed roles by changing masks. Prayer must not be an act or a show.  

V 9-13 reveal the content of prayer. The other verses cover the context in which we pray.

1. Solitude

 “But when you pray go into your room close the door and pray to your Father who is unseen. Then your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you.” v 6

Our true spiritual condition is reflected in what I do when nobody is looking. 

 “Jesus is not saying that prayer should never be a public or corporate act but he is saying that the engine room of prayer, the wellsprings of spirituality lie in the private relationship with God. Think of a deeply rooted tree. There is growth above ground level but the life is drawn from the roots.”  Gerard Kelly

Solitude was a vital and frequent part of Jesus’ spiritual discipline.

Look up:

Mark 1:35

Luke 6:12

Matthew 14:13

Luke 5:16

Matthew 17:1-9

Solitude is often avoided because it is associated with loneliness and the  fear that if we withdraw from constant visibility we will be forgotten.

Introverts gain their energy from within, and are drained by exterior stimulation. Extroverts gain their energy from exterior stimulation and are drained by interior work. 

Both need solitude. The introvert needs to understand that solitude is a discipline that is about seeking God rather an about personal introspection. The extrovert needs the reassurance that they can gain what they need from God himself rather than through what they see or hear, from the people around them.

Solitude can help to cure us of the addictive need for constant company to give reassurance that we are loved, wanted and accepted. This puts people in the place of God. It is God who supplies all our needs according to his riches in glory.

There is a fear of being alone with God because we don’t like our own company. On our own with God, the masks are obsolete and he might insist that we take our defences down.    

If we possess inward solitude we do not fear being alone but neither do we fear being with others, for they do not control us. Alone or in company we can always carry with us a portable sanctuary of the heart.  However most of us still need to develop a heart and mind that can find God in the midst of the crowd. We need to train ourselves in solitude.  A sprinter can ignore the shouts of the crowd and concentrate on the finishing line, but he has developed that skill by practising instant reaction to the starter gun, in the early mornings before the crowds get up.

2. Silence

 “And when you pray do not keep on babbling like the pagans for they think they will be heard because of their many words.”  (v7)

We use words to defend ourselves in some situations, especially those that attack our reputation or our faith. If we are silent, who will be in control? One reason we feel we can hardly remain silent or have time in solitude is that we feel helpless and out of control.

 “Silence is abstaining from sound in order to open our spiritual ears and listen more closely to the voice of God”   Keith Drury

Silence helps us gain appreciation for the worth and importance of words. Silence is not to be shunned as empty space, but to be befriended as fertile ground for intimacy with God and to hear his words. The world’s words are often louder but are not of as much worth.
God often speaks in whispers. See I Kings 19:11- t12
Read Ecclesiastes 5:1-2

3. Sacrifice

The particular sacrifice Jesus was talking about was fasting.

Jesus addresses abuses and the wrong motives attached to prayer and fasting but never suggests that they should be abandoned because we don’t always get them right.

Jesus himself went on a 40 day fast and Paul went on a 3 day fast after his Damascus road experience.  Jesus challenged the Pharisees about their attitude to fasting but he actually endorsed the practice for his disciples when he said to them, “When you fast do not be like the hypocrites.” Fasting was a normal part of Christian life for centuries. It is only in modern times that we have neglected it.  Part of the reason for that is that the modern western church has become so focussed on the intellectual and upon the verbal that we have often failed to bring our physical and material lives under the umbrella of our faith life. 

 “The constant propaganda fed us today convinces us that if we do not have three large meals each day, with several snacks in between we are on the verge of starvation. This coupled with the fact that it is a positive virtue to satisfy every human appetite, has made fasting seem obsolete.”

Richard Foster

Most of us in the western evangelical church need to discover fasting as a tool through which we can get close to God and grow in our faith.

Whilst it is recognised that we don’t just have to fast from food but other things like the internet or TV or watching sport fasting in Jesus day did mean abstinence from food and that has been its primary meaning for centuries.  This is because of all the human appetites the appetite for food is central.  You only discover how central it is when you first attempt to fast.

There are physical benefits to fasting and practical ones. The SA has utilised fasting is to annually ask Salvationists to give up something and then give the money that they have saved through their denial to support the Army’s work.

However if you want a spiritual benefit fasting must begin with the focus on God. The very first statement Jesus made about fasting was about the motives that some people had for practising it.  If our fasting is not to God we have failed.  “Le

Let our fasting be done unto the Lord with our eye singly fixed on him. Let our intention herein be this and this alone, to glorify our Father which is in heaven.” John Wesley

Fasting in the Bible is always accompanied by fervent prayer. There is no spiritual value in hunger alone.  Dieting is not fasting!

When we fast with a desire to know God and  our spiritual senses are heightened. Fasting makes us dependent and most of us hate to feel dependant!
Fasting involves self-denial. We deny the physical appetites of our body for a time, to humble ourselves before God who has all the answers for our lives. Fasting is a sign that seeking God is more important to us than the daily routine of finding food for ourselves. We have a passion for God that supersedes everything else. Fasting will often reveal the things that control us. We cover up what is inside us with food and other good things but in fasting, these things surface.   

Solitude requires we strip away pretence, superficiality, the need to be seen, attention seeking, the stimulation of human company. 

Silence requires we are stripped of our words and our noise.

Sacrifice in this context, strips away our self-indulgences our addiction to food and to things.

But Jesus will not have it that practising spiritual disciplines in the right way is joyless.  

“When you fast do not look sombre as the hypocrites do for they disfigure their faces to show men they are fasting.”  v16                             

In fact there is reward. Jesus says it twice, “Your father who sees what is done in secret will reward you.”  (v6&v18)

 Jesus would agree that we don’t pray and fast in order to get an OBE or a golden globe but what he is saying is that prayer and fasting done in the right way has to have a positive outcome or it is futile. The reward is the company of the divine presence and that is more than enough for anyone.  

God bless

Carol 

What Jesus said about.......Loving our enemies

Exeter Temple Message Notes: 1^st March 2015

Bible Reading:  Matthew 5:38-48

 In this text Jesus asks us to have a sort out not of our attitudes towards enemies and those who give us a hard time. 

Dallas Willard says that the OT passages referred to relate not to institutional or social evils but how to respond to loss and injury to either yourself or your family.

Jesus tells us what we should lose and what we should gain, what we should give up and what we should take in. 

1. Get rid of……….

a) Revenge

We are told in the Bible to be "peacemakers" but does that mean we are to surrender to evil? 

We are told to "love our enemies," but we are also told "oppose them" when they are wrong & when they oppose the things of God.

This can be confusing but we can be clear that what we don’t need is retaliation or revenge.

 “You have heard that it was said, Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth. But I tell you do not resist an evil person.” (v38-39)

The phrase “eye for an eye” is mostly seen in the modern age as being about vindictiveness but when it was introduced into the Old Testament it was originally a merciful provision to put a stop indiscriminate massacres and blood feuds. Before this law if one member of a tribe was injured by a member of another tribe all members of the offended tribe would take vengeance on all members of the offending tribe.  What started out as something small got bigger and bigger as each tribe increased the punishments on the other.

This law was introduced so that there was an exact correspondence and compensation for the wrong done and a line could be put under the matter instead of it going on and on for years.  We still work on this principle in law today.

however by the time of Jesus the law designed to prevent the escalation of violence was being used to justify personal vendettas - the very thing the law was designed to prevent. In fact many were taking the law into their own hands.

Jesus pointed out that personal revenge is not the way to deal with injury.

Jesus’ way was better. When God's love flows through us we pour out grace and forgiveness which changes the human heart and this releases both the victim and the perpetrator.

b) The demand for your rights

In our relationships with others, often what passes for love is little more than a neat business transaction. People are kind to us, so we repay them with equal consideration. When they treat us unjustly, we consider our negative response as being what they asked for. Everything is so balanced and fair but it can also all be a bit calculating. 

Christian love never settles for only what’s reasonable. It insists on giving mercy as well as justice.  It insists not only on giving but on giving generously. 

There are times when people get very defensive about protecting themselves from any infringement of their rights. They are fearful of anyone putting one over on them and it makes them aggressive. 

Jesus is saying, "Don't be always thinking of your liberty to do as you like, but be always thinking of your duty and your privilege to be of service to others”.

We must think of the needs of others even when our pride is at stake, when our rights are abused, when our plans are frustrated and our time is wasted and when there is no hope of compensation.

2. Take up active love

Jesus never simply talked about what we must not do and what we need to get rid of in our lives. He was much more positive than that.

Jesus does not just require a lack of hatred but the presence of love and compassion. The focus is not really on what we refrain from doing but on what we are prepared to do. The accent is not on restraint but on active love.

a) Response

We can do the minimum required and not a stroke more and in such a way that we make it clear we hate the whole thing. The other way is to do what we are asked and possibly more with determination, courtesy, and far better than anyone expects us to - even when the demand for help is discourteous, unreasonable and tyrannical.

Jesus gives examples from his culture of willingly going an extra mile or giving two items of clothing and not just the one that has been requested.

This does not always mean saying yes to everything that is asked of us.  There are times when if we go the extra mile with one person we might harm another e.g a doctor on the way to an emergency.  It may be harmful for another person to always be given into. Our criteria for the way we respond to demands is the others persons good not our convenience. 

Our effort for others should be the same whoever it is we are doing it for, enemy or friend.

Jesus doesn't tell us to love our friends. He doesn't have to, because we love our friends, anyway.

In other words, Jesus is saying, "There should be no limit on your love. You are to love everybody, even your enemies."

b) Initiative

Avoiding getting our own back and not doing another person wrong is not the same thing as actively setting out to improve their situation. We are not called just "not doing them any harm" but to doing them good.

Again we need to be careful that we are guided by the Spirit in this.

Jesus tells us to do that in three ways.

i) Through our words. 

"Bless them that curse you."  (Luke 6:28)

We are to reply to insults with compliments. We are to love people through our words.

ii) Through our deeds 

 “Do good to those who hate you.”  (Luke 6:27)

iii)  Through our prayers

 “Pray for those who persecute you.”  (Matthew 5:44)3. How is it possible?

The biggest mistake people make about this passage. It is that we can do this what Jesus is advocating by trying really hard.

We can’t.  We will always fail.

And this is more than a bit of a disaster because at first glance it looks like Jesus is saying that our status as children of God depends upon our performance in this area.

 “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you that you may be the sons of your Father in heaven.” (v 44)

We could take this to mean that you must first become a person who loves his enemies as a way of earning your place as a child of God.

 “If you take the Sermon on the Mount as a whole, all the commandments assume—they presuppose—that a profound conversion has happened—a new birth—before our righteousness surpasses the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees. We do not earn or merit our sonship or our entrance into heaven. We receive it as a free gift and gracious promise, and then we live in a way that shows where our treasure is and who our Father is.

(John Piper)

Later in his sermon Jesus talks about how fruit is produced, “A good tree cannot bear bad fruit and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit.” (Matthew 7:15-20)

What Jesus is saying is that you cannot produce the fruit of love in order to become a good tree. You have to become a good tree in order to produce the fruit of love. Becoming a child of God and being transformed on the inside—becoming a good tree—precedes and enables love, not vice versa.

Loving our enemies is the outcome of the inward transformation our self-centred nature to having a God-centred. And what is God’s nature?  God is love.

How can we love our enemies?   God pours his love into our hearts.  If we want to love our enemies, don’t start by trying to work up human feelings, start by handing over your empty heart to be filled with the love of God and then let it leak out. “And hope does not disappoint us because god has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit whom he has given us.” (Romans 5:5)

God bless

Carol 

What Jesus said about......Keeping Promises

Exeter Temple Message notes 22^nd February 2015

Bible Reading: Matthew 5:33-37

1.  Purpose   v 33

Jesus starts off by reminding his listeners of something that they already knew.  Jesus says, “You have heard that it was said…..”

“When a man makes a vow to the Lord or takes an oath to bind himself by a pledge he must not break his word but must do everything he said.” (Numbers 30:2)

 In Jesus’ day the Jewish people had established an informal system of oath taking. If you swore by God you were bound to it but if you wanted to wriggle out of a promise you could swear on someone or something else. So for instance if you swore on your mother’s grave but she wasn’t actually in it yet you could plead that your promise was invalid. 

 Such things continue today whereby it is possible to keep the law but be ethically wrong.  Pay day lenders act within the law but many people have been deceived by the innocent looking ads which make it look as if they are doing you a favour. Companies make the headlines because although may not have broken any law they appear to have been avoiding their moral obligation to pay taxes to the countries in which they trade.

Jesus goes back to the purpose of the law - the promotion of honesty and integrity in all things.  Jesus strips everything back to one thing. “Let your yes be yes and your no be no.”  (v37)

 All the clever playing about with words doesn’t make a broken promise any less serious. What really matters is what kind of person are you if you want make gains at their expense whilst fooling others into thinking you are law abiding and righteous? 

 Some Christians have taken these verses as meaning that we must not, under any circumstances make vows. So they refuse to take an oath in a court of law, in a marriage ceremony, or in any other situation.

 Yet oaths and vows show up remarkably often in both the Old and New Testament, In fact in the OT God’s people are specifically commanded by God to swear their oaths in his name.

In Matthew 26:63-64 Jesus does not refuse to be put under oath in his trial before the Sanhedrin and makes a statement under oath and under oath agrees that he is the Christ. 

 In 2 Corinthians 1:18 Paul repeatedly invokes God as his witness to emphasize the solemnity and the truthfulness of the things he is declaring,

It is helpful at times to make public vows and pledges. It means we are more likely to be clear and intentional in our actions rather than just drift along. When we nail our colours to the mast as it were, by making a promise, we are be clear about what we stand for and what we believe in.  And if others witness our promise, then they can hold us to account for our actions.

 But what Jesus is saying is that we shouldn’t need to be forced into being faithful to the promises we have made or cajoled into being honest because we are scared of breaking the rules.  We don’t need legal restraints to be truthful. We should be honest and faithful anyway. 

2. Profanity

We can all do things thoughtlessly at times. In this passage Jesus warns against extending that thoughtlessness to the way we use God’s name. We utter profanities not just by using bad language but whenever we use God’s name lightly.

 In the Old Testament, when you swore by someone, you were invoking that person first of all as a corroborating witness to attest to your word. You were invoking the name of someone whose witness is reliable and trustworthy to testify to the trustworthiness of your own words.

You could also call on someone as a judge against you if your words were found to be untrue. However it became all too easy to use swear by someone’s name or even their life over the most trivial of things.

It still happens today as people say without thinking, “Well I’ll be damned!  or I swear by my  mother’s life.

 When people want to add emphasis to how strongly they feel about someone, or something one of the ways they find to do it is to call on the name of God to back what they are saying.  They are involving God in their opinion, their argument, their excitement, their response to a surprise or shock by the use of His name.

 The dishonour comes when in actual fact they have not in reality given God a second thought.  To lift up God’s name in vain is to use it in an empty, frivolous and insincere way. 

Jesus showed us that we can quite easily say all the accepted things but still get our use of the Lord’s name wrong.

 “Not everyone who says to me, “Lord, Lord will enter the kingdom of heaven but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, “Lord, Lord did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles? Then I will tell them plainly I never knew you.”  Matthew 7: 21-23

 “The worst kind of verbal profanity is lip service.” (Anon)

We are not just to honour God without talk but with our walk. Taking the Lord’s name in vain also has with it the idea of bearing God’s name.

Remember that when Israel joined into the covenant they became God’s people.  God has a new people who now bear His name.

In Acts 11:26 we find that the disciples were first called Christians at a place called Antioch.  The term Christian means “Christ-ones” or little Christ’s. As Christians we carry around the name of Christ wherever we go. The reason the disciples were called Christians at Antioch is because they lived like Christ, they were different. It was an honour and a responsibility and certainly not something which was taken lightly.

None of us is flawless in living our faith but we must be careful to live out what we profess to believe in.  If the God we claim we believe in is merciful then we must be merciful. If the God we claim to believe in gave himself  sacrificially then we must also give of ourselves even if it is costly. If the God we believe in is love then we must be a loving person.

3. Pressure

One of the golden rules of parenting is to keep your word.  There is nothing more disappointing for a child that when a parent says yes to a child and then fails to deliver.  It is so damaging to a child when a parent declares that there will be consequences for misbehaviour but never follows up with action.  Equally, a child also learns that a parents word cannot be trusted if the child knows that if they nag long enough or make enough fuss a no comes a yes eventually.

Our word needs to hold, even under pressure. To be a person of integrity means that you are willing to go against the crowd if the crowd is wrong. It means being willing to stand alone, if necessary, for what is right. It means peer-pressure is no pressure for you.

Jesus faced the gut-wrenching choice of keeping a costly promise. 
God had been promising for thousands of years to send a Messiah, His Son to save the world through His death and resurrection. But when the moment of truth came in the garden of Gethsemane, Jesus felt the weight keeping this promise.In fact, He asked His Father, Please let this cup pass from me.

Jesus knows what it is like to face the weight of a promise.
But in that moment of truth, when He realized there was no other way, Jesus became the ultimate promise-keeper.

We need to make sure that we have more than a façade of faith.  It is the growth of character, and a spiritual life that supports who we are that counts.  

God bless

Alan

What Jesus said about.................Sex, marriage and relationships

Bible Readings: Matthew 5:27-30 and 1 Corinthians 6:18-20

Human beings have many different kinds of relationships, the most important of which are those through which they express and receive love. 
In English we only have one word for love whilst in Greek there are four.
Storge             love for family, parents, children, your brothers and sisters
Philia               love for you social group/friends
Eros                 romantic or sexual love, 
Agape             God’s love (underused word Christians adopted to describe God’s love.)

1.  Sex is more than just a physical act.
The AV uses the word “knew” when it refers to a couple having a sexual relationship. The Hebrew word for sex is “yada” which literally means "to know."
Sexual intimacy is not just physical but is about knowing a person’s emotional and spiritual side. God designed sex to be a way for people to know their partners in a way that is exclusive to their relationship.
 “It’s not because Christians are against sex that they are hot on chastity before marriage and fidelity in it; on the contrary it is because they value it so highly. Sex is too good a gift of God to cheapen.” Canon Michael Green
When Jesus talked about marriage he said, "So they are no longer two but one. What therefore God has joined together let no man pull apart" (Matt 19:6).
When people have sex they may not feel it or recognise it has happened but they have bonded with the other person.  They have given not just their bodies but themselves to the other person. 

2. Sex needs boundaries                                                                                                                                   

When society talks about safe sex; what it usually means is sex that doesn’t end in a pregnancy or a person being infected with a disease. People need not only physical protection when it comes to sex but guidelines which keep a person safe emotionally and spiritually.
"Sex is like a great river that is rich and deep and good as long as it stays within its proper channel. The moment a river overflows its banks, it becomes destructive, and the moment sex overflows its God-given banks, it too can become destructive."  (ANON)
In our society today many people, who are not religious at all recognise that sex needs boundaries but many people today have their own moral guidelines regarding sexual behaviour. The difficulty with everyone forming their own code of behaviour is that it is not always clear that the people we get involved with have the same set of values.
God’s version of safe sex is abstinence until marriage.  This is not because he is a kill joy but because it is sometimes necessary to experience short-term frustration for long-term blessing.
God is our creator and he invented sex!  If someone has invented something then they are the best person to explain how it works best and how to enjoy it best.  We can also trust God on this because he is a loving Father. When a parent places restrictions on a child sometimes it can be because they are harsh and mean but more often it is because they long to protect them from harm.  God knows that sexual wounds are among the deepest and most profound wounds that can be inflicted on a person so he created a special kind of relationship to provide a safe context for sexual expression- It is marriage. It is not that we won’t get hurt in marriage because since we live in a fallen and sinful creation, all of us are broken to some extent or another. However marriage provides the safest context for us to enjoy our sexuality.
In all the teaching on love, marriage and relationships there is no suggestion in the Bible that single people live less fulfilling lives.  God calls some people to a single life, just as Jesus lived a single life. God blesses people who make the choice to remain single and celibate.

3. We can live in freedom
For many people, the media frenzy around sexual matters is not fun or a joke but a pressure.  Our society tells us that if we are not having regular sex, whether or not we are married, there is something wrong with us.
 “Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognise what he wants from you and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops a well formed maturity in you.”   Romans 12:1
The Greek word for lust is epi-thu-mos – epi means to add to signifying that something is being added to a normal drive.  Some find themselves struggling to control their desire for sex within God’s guidelines from a pressure within themselves.  The Bible calls this lust. 
This can be applied to all kinds of things. We should all have an appetite for food, but there are times when have extra cravings for it. It applies to some peoples craving for an adrenalin rush and of course to sexual desire.
There are consequences for giving into lust in these areas. Weight gain is obvious regarding food.  Many young men in prison today are there because they let their lust for excitement lead them to steal cars. When men and women have given into lust they have sometimes lost relationships that took years to build for a moment of gratification and sometimes a life-time addiction.
Jesus challenged us not to add onto the God-given sexual drive by polluting our minds with lustful thoughts.
 “I will not be mastered by anything.” 1 Corinthians 6:12
Remember Satan is a liar.
The devil will always tempt us to believe that what we want outside of God’s will can satisfy us. It never does.
Remove yourself from danger
Don’t go near the things that draw you in.  It may be what you watch on TV, what sites you go onto on the computer, or just the company you keep. 
Re-direct your attention
None of us can escape temptations coming our way at some point.  Every temptation is first a thought introduced to your mind. Paul advises that we take every thought captive and take it to Jesus.
 “Whatever is true, whatever is honourable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise let your mind dwell on these things.” (Philippians 4:11)
Ask yourself, “If this thought becomes action, will the outcome be lovely and contribute to excellence in my life? Is it something for which I can praise God? If the answer is no then dismiss that thought and don’t have any more to do with it. 
We need to remember that whatever lust we are trying to deal with in or lives will power alone with not be enough.  We need the Holy Spirit’s power.  We are not on our own. 
“Live by the Spirit and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature.”

If we feel that this subject doesn’t apply to us we need to remember:

·         that there may be those who seek wise counsel from you.

·         that because we belong to society and when society handles things well we all benefit and when it doesn’t we are all affected in some way.   

·         the millions of people today who are victims of human trafficking and sexual slavery and pray for them.

·         to pray for people in “eros” relationships, that they will know what it is to live in the freedom of God’s way for their lives? 

Questions

1.       What do you think about the fact that today’s sermon was about sex?

2.       What other subjects do you think we should be preached about but are often neglected? 

3.       What are the consequences of living outside the boundaries of the commands God has given for our good in regards to sexual purity?

4.       How do we maintain the standards of sexual morality in the church without alienating people who either do not agree with our views or who have failed to live according to God’s commands?

5.       Even as committed believers in Jesus Christ, we will continue to be tempted to sin because Satan is out to try to destroy our lives and the lives of our families. How does God help us to stand up under temptation?

God bless

Carol

 

What Jesus said about.........anger

Bible Reading:  Matthew 5:21-26
Jesus’ starting place is murder but murder according to Jesus is not the problem. Jesus connected murder with anger and whilst we may not commit murder we all have experience of anger.
Anger can range from mild annoyance to absolute frustration and can be manifested through actions ranging from, giving someone the cold shoulder to murder. When something goes wrong, seems unfair or does not go our way a surge of emotion rises in us. Adrenaline flows into the bloodstream, muscles tense and pulses quicken as the body prepares for response. Anger is a force within us.
1. Enlarge our understanding  v 21-22a
Jesus says we interpret this law on a superficial level and we need our understanding of what lies behind our actions enlarged. Jesus always goes to the heart. He’s saying that the real problem is living according to an uncontrolled inner life.
This is not to say that anger as an emotion is wrong in itself because Jesus himself became indignant a lot of times in the Gospels. The Jesus we find in the New Testament was not someone who didn’t allow anything to disturb Him. Instead we find a Jesus infuriated at injustice and openly expressing His anger at wrongdoing.
“In your anger do not sin.”  Ephesians 4:26
In fact if we don’t get angry sometimes for the sake of other people that can be sin.
But we must also notice that Jesus’ anger was not wrapped up with his personal ego. It was never born out of resentment about the way He had been treated personally.
“There are times when I do well to be angry but I have mistaken the times.” (George Matheson)
Anger is just an immediate response that alerts us to an obstruction of our will. It happens perhaps when we do not get want we want or when things aren’t happening as quickly as we want them to.  But then we make a choice about whether of not to indulge it.We are always better at defending our rights than facing up to our responsibilities for others. We can often get angrier about the fact that the bus is late than over the fact that every day innocent children are being sold into prostitution.                                                                                                  
A process that starts with angry feelings, which are then nursed, can turn to hatred. If unchecked the result is sometimes actual murder but even when uncontrolled anger doesn’t result in physical killing, it is still very damaging.
“To lick your wounds, to smack your lips over grievances long past, to roll over your tongue the prospect of bitter confrontation still to come, to save the last toothsome morsel of both the pain you are given and the pain you are giving back - in many ways is a feast fit for a king. The chief drawback is that what you are wolfing down is you. The skeleton at the feast is you.” (Frederick Bruchner)

2. Express anger wisely v 22b
The fact that people wrote about Jesus’ anger shows that Jesus did not repress anger but expressed it. Otherwise how did they know he was angry?
Pushing anger down does not deal with it.
The force that may do a great deal of damage when released in a fit of temper may do equivalent damage if repressed. The repressed angry person falls into the trap of avoiding people, the silent treatment, negative wise cracks and self-pity. And the people whom they feel they have been wronged by are bewildered because they do not know the reason for their coldness.
Love often expresses itself in honest confrontation. Differences of opinion do not necessarily equate with an absence of love.
If we read the New Testament we see that Jesus did not deny His anger but He never lost His temper or control of Himself.  So often we think that anger can only be expressed by blowing up or quarrelling using bitter and angry words or through
To call someone Raca was not a mild jibe but to call them an idiot with an attitude of arrogant contempt. The word may have originated from the sound a person makes in clearing the throat in preparation to spit at them.  The word fool comes from the Greek word “moros”. Using this term about someone was not to criticise their abilities or mistakes but to cast aspersions on their moral character. It was to take their name and reputation from them and brand them as a despicable person. In our day the equivalent could possibly to call someone a pervert.
Jesus is not suggesting that everyone who utters the word fool is heading straight to hell but he is making the point that anger unleashed through thoughtless words can lead to killing someone’s sense of self-worth and their character.
This does not mean that we should never say anything that might hurt another person’s feelings. When we are warning another away from sin we will have to say things that may upset them. But we need to be careful the way we do it. 
“Preach the Word…correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction” (2 Timothy 4:2)

3. Expect God to get involved v24
Worship was a major concern of the scribes and Pharisees. They spent much time making sacrifices, offering prayers and giving tithes. But it could all easily become heartless external ceremony.
The word picture of a person offering their gift at the altar was a familiar one to Jews. Every Jew realized that sin caused a breach in one’s relationship with God, and Jesus points out that harbouring anger puts us at odds with God. Our relationship with God is inextricably linked to our relationships with people. If an situation involving unresolved anger comes to mind when we are at worship it is possibly  be the Holy Spirit is at work in our memory.

4. Engage in positive action  v25-26
It was not uncommon in his day for a person to be thrown into prison because they owed someone money. If you were proactive and could reach an agreement with the person before the case came to the judge prison could often be avoided.
Jesus tells the story to drive home his point that we cannot harbor anger for a time and wait until we feel like forgiving the person. Time is of the essence. The longer we wait the more entrenched hostility becomes.

“What if they won’t forgive or don’t want to reconcile with us’?

With the right motive, in the right spirit we are to attempt to make things right. God will honour our efforts. The one offended may need time; healing and God may have a work to do in their hearts.

“If it is possible as far as it depends upon you, live at peace with everyone.”

(Romans 12:18)

“We don’t solve the problem by looking at the provocation and excusing our anger, we solve it by looking deep within ourselves at our own hearts and dealing with what we see there. We must give our anger to the Lord and let his Spirit fill our lives.  (Stuart Briscoe)

Paul lists self-control as a by-product of having the Spirit of Christ living within us. It is something that is grown within us as we co-operate with God.

For many people anger has become a problem and they still get angry for all the wrong reasons and respond to it in all the wrong ways. In fact we sometimes don’t even know why we feel such rage and irritability and we try to fight it.

That is not the Christian way. The advice of the Bible is not to fight our hurts our resentments but to express them by surrendering to a loving Father. We need to reject the hold anger can have on our lives.

“But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. Do not lie to each other since you have taken off you old self with its practices.” (Colossians 3:8-9)

As we yield ourselves up to God His Spirit fills us.  This is not a spirit of fear but a spirit of power of love and of self-control.

Blessings 
Carol  

 

 

 

 

 

 

Leaving the past behind and looking forward

Exeter Temple Bible Message notes: 25th January 2015
Bible Reading: Psalm 103

At this time of year people make new year resolutions and plan ahead for the months ahead. 
Why do we do this?
It can be because there are areas in our lives that we are unhappy with, areas in our lives where we want to be better and to achieve things.
Everybody believers and non-believers experience the leaving of one year and entry into another. As we do this we need to learn to leave some things behind us leave some things where they belong.
We need to leave behind anything in our lives that keeps us from focussing on the Lord.
Being a Christian means always trying to go forward. We talk about our walk in life, our walk in faith and our walk with the Lord. By it's very nature walking means moving forward. As we move forward we leave one place and go to another.
We need to leave behind the following things that do us no good.
 1. Resentment
It might be something we have said or done, or something someone else has said or done. Along with resentment comes un-forgiveness.  Jesus said that if we forgive others God will forgive us but if we don't forgive he will not forgive us.
Forgive does not mean the same as forget. We cannot take things from our memory but we can forgive.  We often choose to like or dislike people on the basis of our preferences and on what we think. Remember we are not perfect and we are not always right.
There is a saying that goes, "Look lovingly upon your enemies for it is you that have made them." 

2. Worry
We all tend to worry over something at times. Someone said that "Worries are like rocking chairs; they give you something to do but do not take you anywhere while you are doing it."
Worrying takes over every thought of our lives and it causes stress, mental illness and many other things that destroy our lives. Worry is the cause of fear.
Why should we be afraid?  Did not Jesus say, "I will be with you day after day right up to the end of time." Matthew 28:20
And by worrying we do not make any difference to the thing we are worrying about.  So leave your worries behind you as you come into the New Year.

3. Failures
We try so hard to be the best that we can be but we do not always succeed. We get discouraged when we think that we have failed.  We might not have achieved what we originally set out to do but the real failure is when we do not try to do anything. God called us to have faith long before he ever called us to achieve. We are called to be in Christ and as long as we are in him we are successful.
When we as individual have strayed from our Lord and we find failure in our lives we are not completely happy or content but when we turn back to him again he will hear us and restore us. He is the God of restoration.

Bible Reading:  Jeremiah 18:1-12 (The Message)

If we could go back to last year and live it again what if anything would we change?  If we could change something would we actually do it?  It takes some hard thinking and searching to answer that question truthfully.
All people are searching for new beginnings, for changes but how many people understand that there is a process to change?
Change doesn't happen instantly. How many people lose heart and get tired of trying to begin again?
It can be like a person trying a new knitting pattern having to go back an unpick their knitting because may they got the stitches right but the wool was wrong or they got the wool right but as the knitting progresses the picture being formed is the wrong way around. The only answer each time is to start again
In our spiritual lives we can sometimes go our own way, making decisions and planning and we wonder why things go wrong. We mess up but like the knitting we can go back to God, time and time again and ask for his forgiveness and to show us his plan.
There are times in all our lives when we are actually called to a new beginning. It may be a new job, a house move, maybe retirement.
In the story of the potter the clay he was using did not turn our the way he wanted so he re-moulded it. God our heavenly father has created us and moulded us to what he wants us to be but how many times must he be disappointed that the vessel he created becomes out of shape?
Our lives are in the hands of the divine potter, not a fortune teller or start predictor. The divine potter cares about us, the choices we make, the things we do and the things that happen to us.
"Yet O Lord, your are our Father. We are the clay and you the potter. We are all the work of your hands." (Isaiah 64:8)
As the potter, God has the power over the clay; clay cannot mould itself, it needs the potter to turn the wheel.  God has the power to turn the wheel of our lives.
God, who is the potter moulds us through:
a) inner conviction. The sense that God is pointing our something in our lives that needs to be changed.
b) though many different circumstances. We sometimes question God when we go through difficulties but they often after these times we become close to God.  Do not forget that God does not give us problems or circumstances larger than we can carry. Birds sing after a storm, so why shouldn't we?

The kind of vessel we become is up to us. We can be a vessel of honour or dishonour. Is there anything in your life that is hindering the process of God?
God takes us just as we are and we do not have to pretend with him.
We can come with all our broken pieces and shameful scars.
God is not mad at you or disappointed.
His grace is greater that all our wrong choices and he is full of mercy and is ever kind.
He sees what we can become and knows what plans he has for each of our lives.
Let him be the potter so he can mould you into the person he wants you to become.
Let the start of the year become a new beginning by putting all the things of the past behind us and ,moving forward as new vessels.

God bless you
Margaret Pope